About

I am a 29 30 year old lesbian who has decided to go back to school. I have been with my partner Sugarmomma (SM) for almost 8 years. She has been mostly supporting us for about two years now while I try to figure out what to do with my life and go to school which is why I’ll call her Sugarmomma or sometimes G which stands for Girlfriend.

I can be harsh, negative, funny, and sassy. I like to swear, a lot. I’m keeping myself anonymous so that I can be as candid and truthful as possible. I’ll talk about relationships, school, pets, sex, family, anything that disgusts or upsets me, as well as everyday crap. 

Sugarmomma and I live in Wisconsin. We moved back here in October 2006 from Virginia(DC Metro area) where we had lived for three years, we had lived here for several years prior to moving to Virginia. We live with our dog, Meg a Black Lab mix and our two cats Nova and Stella who I often refer to as the children/kids and various other pet names, since well they are pets.

I am using this blog as a way to express feelings and experiences as I go through college and life, and also because I want to be cool. I am generally a funny person, but also incredibly sincere. Sometimes I use cruel humor but it’s for the humor not to be cruel. Sometimes I’m just plain rude and mean because I use crudeness and humor to disguise my low self esteem. I helped care for my grandmother for almost 2 years and then I took care of my mom for 7 months before she passed away from cancer. I have PCOS a “female” thing and I also suffer from Generalized Anxiety Disorder (GAD) with Agoraphobia. I have a vomit phobia which is more so about other people and not myself but either one is panick attack inducing. To top it all off I have never weighed more in my life and am about as unhealthy as I ever have been except I managed somehow to quit smoking.

Life is a trip. Why not join me?